tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28875432911468065232024-03-13T19:59:15.500-07:00The IntuitiveGroup, Inc.The Intuitive Group, Inc. opened its doors in March of 2008 in Vienna, Virginia behind the vision of the company President Matt Sileno. The firm simultaneously landed its first client, which finished 17th on the 2008 Fortune 500 list. One of the Nations leaders in the telecommunications industry and with the help of The Intuitive Group it will continue to grow its reputation in outstanding customer service.Unknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger28125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2887543291146806523.post-43532096000681024102010-11-03T23:46:00.000-07:002010-11-05T12:59:59.268-07:00Achieve Greater Success in Your Business<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_SfSOKz4FR0o/TNJWgC9BoxI/AAAAAAAAAH0/uZ-j9apFWb0/s1600/risingtosuccess.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="240" px="true" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_SfSOKz4FR0o/TNJWgC9BoxI/AAAAAAAAAH0/uZ-j9apFWb0/s320/risingtosuccess.jpg" width="320" /></a></div>There are no ifs, ands, or buts, the <strong><u><em>greater the success, the more the responsibility</em></u></strong>. Everyone cannot handle the success. Some may choose complacency over notoriety. They don't like criticism and they abhor pressure. But if you are the kind of person that desperately wants to be somebody, then go for it! Frankly, some people will never be satisfied with sitting on the bleachers cheering for others who are in the game. Locked within each of us is an inner ambitious intrigue not predicated on jealousy or intimidation. It is built upon an inner need to unlock a predestined purpose. These kind of people are <strong>willing to pay the price</strong> because they are compelled, drawn, and driven toward a hope and success. <br />
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<blockquote><strong><em>You have heard it many times - "No pain, no gain."</em></strong></blockquote><br />
This means regardless of what it takes, what you have to readjust, what you must do to discipline yourself, and respond to the challenges that life throws at you, you do whatever it takes. <br />
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To underscore this issue, let's go over some important truths. <br />
<ul><li><strong>Huge stress comes with success in any area.</strong> </li>
</ul>When you're building up to your success, you will definitely experience rejection, controversy, criticism, and maybe even isolation! <br />
<ul><li><strong>Count the cost. </strong></li>
</ul>Before I ask to buy a house I must first count the costs. I have to come up with closing costs, a down payment, etc. The initial cost to purchase and become a homeowner is much higher in comparison to renting! But then over time the homeowner definitely wins out. What do you think?<br />
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I am told that runners make long, steady strides and that their emphasis is on endurance, not speed. They take their laps and stretch their limitations, giving themselves over to committing their strength to a goal. Perspiration leaps out of their pores. The salty taste of exertion is in their mouths. Turning corners with agility, running shoes banging on the pavement, heads high, backs straight - They are in pursuit of a goal. <br />
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<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_SfSOKz4FR0o/TNJWTDNtr7I/AAAAAAAAAHw/_T3ph0EvtDE/s1600/NeelmanWallace.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="320" px="true" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_SfSOKz4FR0o/TNJWTDNtr7I/AAAAAAAAAHw/_T3ph0EvtDE/s320/NeelmanWallace.jpg" width="270" /></a></div>For any runners out there, let me know if you agree with this - as you near the finish line, there is a final burst of energy that kicks in. <br />
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Overall, realize that there has never been a day that lasted forever. You cannot afford to sit back and relax. A runner trains him or herself to achieve a goal, to break a record, win a trophy, or whatever it may be. Whether you win trophies or receive great accolades it doesn't matter. What matters is that you stretch your legs and run in the wind. It's <em>only your shadow</em> that you're running against. And <em>it is your own destiny</em> that you stride beside.<div class="blogger-post-footer">About Matt Sileno: Matt Sileno, the President/Founder of TheIntuitive Group, Inc. is no stranger to hard work and overcoming adversity. He has taken his small Sales and Marketing Firm to new heights working directly with Fortune 100 and Fortune 500 companies across the U.S.</div>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2887543291146806523.post-16739073006937629132010-10-25T22:52:00.000-07:002010-10-25T22:52:46.621-07:00What do you do when things don’t line up between all three—your head, your heart and your gut?<div style="color: #2e2b1e; font-family: Georgia, "Times New Roman", Times, serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 19px;"><strong>What do you do when things don’t line up between all three—your head, your heart and your gut?</strong><br />
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</div><div style="color: #2e2b1e; font-family: Georgia, "Times New Roman", Times, serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 19px;"><strong>Realization is the epiphany.</strong> It’s when you realize your happiness and success, even survival, begin with you. I’ve been down on my luck plenty of times, and I know it’s easy to blame others. But that moment of realization is when I get honest with myself and take responsibility for my actions. That may mean saying I’m sorry, or evaluating my involvement in a situation.<br />
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<strong>Assessment is the process of taking stock</strong>—not in what you have, but in who you are. If your self-esteem is telling you that you are anything other than priceless, you’ve got to make some changes. Assess your skills, your attitude, your beliefs, and if you don’t like what you see, don’t be afraid to remodel. Tear things down and start over if you need to. Give yourself an appraisal and allow yourself to see who you are—and then trust who you are.<br />
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<strong>It's all about motivation. </strong>You may know people who aren’t all that talented but are exceptionally successful. Those who aren’t successful aren’t motivated. The key to finding success is to find your motivation. Your motivation is the fuel that will keep you going.<br />
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To find your motivation and to acquire and maintain the creativity and positivity required for success, you have to find a method of self-renewal. When you’re stuck, take yourself out of the situation. Get away for a day or two. Stop and smell the roses. That pause gives you the time you need for self-renewal. And it gives you the space you need in order to get a clear perspective and to find your motivation.<br />
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Once you have your head, your heart, and your gut in order, you have to take action. You can’t just talk about it; you have to step up to the plate and take your best shot.</div><div class="blogger-post-footer">About Matt Sileno: Matt Sileno, the President/Founder of TheIntuitive Group, Inc. is no stranger to hard work and overcoming adversity. He has taken his small Sales and Marketing Firm to new heights working directly with Fortune 100 and Fortune 500 companies across the U.S.</div>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2887543291146806523.post-39982774957462087472010-10-25T22:43:00.000-07:002010-10-26T20:03:56.878-07:00Are You In the Driver's Seat? Six Steps to Turn Desires into Gold<span style="font-size: large;">Understand the difference in being the driver and being in the passenger seat.</span><br />
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You see, passengers are free to do a lot of things the driver cannot do. As a driver, your focus needs to be on the road and not on the distractions. As the driver, you no longer have the right to "mess around", such as listening to loud music, even though it seems ok to do that as a passenger. <br />
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The same principle applies when you become a leader. You are no longer a passenger, you become the driver. Even though your responsibilities increase when you become a manager, you lose some of the rights and freedoms you may have enjoyed in the past. <br />
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<strong>As a leader,</strong> you must identify accountability to:<br />
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<li>Your goals</li>
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In the following are six definite, practice steps, used as a method by which desire for riches can be transmuted into its financial equivalent. These instructions are taken from the classic book, "Think and Grow Rich" by Napoleon Hill. You will notice how detail oriented you must be. Saying you're going to do something is not enough. In actuality, when you write things down you commit to doing them If you simply say what you want to do, there is really no commitment to getting it done.<br />
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<strong><u>Step 1</u> </strong> <br />
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Fix in your mind the exact amount of money you desire. It is not sufficient to merely say "I want plenty of money." Be definite as to the amount. (There is a psychological reason from definiteness.)<br />
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Determine exactly what you intend to give in return for the money you desire. (There is no such reality as "something for nothing.")<br />
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Establish a definite date when you intend to possess the money you desire. <br />
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<strong><u>Step 4</u></strong> <br />
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Create a definite plan for carrying out your desire, and begin at once, whether you are ready or not, to put this plan into action.<br />
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<strong><u>Step 5</u></strong> <br />
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Write out a clear, concise statement of the amount of money you intend to acquire, name the time limit for its acquisition, state what you intend to give in return for the money, and describe clearly the plan through which you intend to accumulate it.<br />
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<strong><u>Step 6</u></strong> <br />
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Read your written statement aloud, twice daily, once just before retiring at night, and once after rising in the morning. As you read, see, feel, and believe yourself already in possession of the money.<br />
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<em>Overall,</em> be a driver, not a passenger. Until you accept total responsibility, no matter what- you will not be able to put plans in place to accomplish your goals.<div class="blogger-post-footer">About Matt Sileno: Matt Sileno, the President/Founder of TheIntuitive Group, Inc. is no stranger to hard work and overcoming adversity. He has taken his small Sales and Marketing Firm to new heights working directly with Fortune 100 and Fortune 500 companies across the U.S.</div>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2887543291146806523.post-55692440037101859942010-10-25T22:38:00.000-07:002010-10-25T22:38:39.298-07:00How To Grow Your Action Habit<span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS", sans-serif;"></span><br />
<strong>In the following</strong> is some content pulled from "7 Ways to Grow the Action Habit". <br />
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<strong><span style="font-size: large;">Don’t wait until conditions are perfect</span></strong> – If you’re waiting to start until conditions are perfect, you probably never will. There will always be something that isn’t quite right. Either the timing is off, the market is down, or there’s too much competition. In the real world there is no perfect time to start. <span id="more-173"></span>You have to take action and deal with problems as they arise. <br />
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<a href="http://www.theintuitivegroup-dc.com/home/" id="iqnp" modo="false" title="The best time to start was last year. The second best time is right now.">The best time to start was last year. The second best time is right now.</a><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;"><strong>Distractions</strong></span><br />
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Get down to business immediately – It’s common practice for people to socialize and make small talk at the beginning of meetings. The same is true for individual workers. How often do you check email or RSS feeds before doing any real work? These distractions will cost you serious time if you don’t bypass them and get down to business immediately. By becoming someone who gets to the point you’ll be more productive and people will look to you as a leader.<br />
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<strong><span style="font-size: large;">Seize the Initiative</span></strong><br />
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It takes courage to take action without instructions from the person in charge. Perhaps that’s why initiative is a rare quality that’s coveted by managers and executives everywhere. When you have a good idea, start implementing it without being told. Once people see you’re serious about getting things done they’ll want to join in. The people at the top don’t have anyone telling them what to do. If you want to join them, you should get used to acting independently.<br />
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<blockquote><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_SfSOKz4FR0o/TMZpKMZW7pI/AAAAAAAAAHo/zLV0bpK2Mj4/s1600/evaluating-roy-halladay-trade.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="320" nx="true" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_SfSOKz4FR0o/TMZpKMZW7pI/AAAAAAAAAHo/zLV0bpK2Mj4/s320/evaluating-roy-halladay-trade.jpg" width="282" /></a></div><span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS", sans-serif;">Be accountable. If you can’t be accountable to yourself, than find someone who will make you get it done.</span></blockquote><div class="blogger-post-footer">About Matt Sileno: Matt Sileno, the President/Founder of TheIntuitive Group, Inc. is no stranger to hard work and overcoming adversity. He has taken his small Sales and Marketing Firm to new heights working directly with Fortune 100 and Fortune 500 companies across the U.S.</div>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2887543291146806523.post-65458975290503090382010-10-14T07:04:00.000-07:002010-10-14T07:04:58.446-07:00How to Master the Art of Focus and Decision-making<a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_SfSOKz4FR0o/TLVViDKWQFI/AAAAAAAAAHY/I8Uc0pfs2j0/s1600/time-management-web.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="213" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_SfSOKz4FR0o/TLVViDKWQFI/AAAAAAAAAHY/I8Uc0pfs2j0/s320/time-management-web.jpg" width="320" /></a><br />
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<div class="post_title"></div><b>Time-Management</b> is not only something for managers and leaders. It is a topic that everyone can benefit from, especially if we want to get ahead and make a difference in our lives:<i> "Where should I spend my time on? What is important?"</i><br />
Everyone also has questions such as,<i> "How can I spend my time in the best way possible? How can I get the most out of it?"</i><br />
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It is the the art of focus and decision-making combined with effective productivity.<br />
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Overall, it boils down to the the <b>art of focus</b> and<b> decision-making</b> combined with <b>effective productivity.</b><br />
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I had a bad habit of wanting to please everyone and having a hard time saying "No". So what happens is that the last person to hand you a “priority” gets bumped to the top of your to do list. However I have found that if you don’t set your own priorities, you will be tossed like a bottle on the sea. <br />
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Stephen Covey, author of <a href="http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/ASIN/0671708635/purchase-items-20" rel="nofollow"><i>The Seven Habits of Highly Effective People</i></a> and <a href="http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/ASIN/0684802031/purchase-items-20" rel="nofollow"><i>First Things First</i></a> popularized the concept of a Time Management Matrix. <i>This book has been one of the cornerstones in personal development and success strategies. </i><br />
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<i></i>The Matrix helps me focus on the most important tasks by letting me classify them as important vs. unimportant and urgent vs. non-urgent.<br />
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<b>What is urgent?</b> Urgent are all tasks determined by external pressures and requirements that need your immediate attention. But are they important or not important?<br />
<b>What is important?</b> Important are the tasks that are in harmony with our goals and our life-balance. In essence, what is important are tasks that contribute the very most to your long term future. <br />
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<i>In the process of managing your time, separate and list the urgent from the important. </i><br />
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You will have a lot that fall in the category of urgent but not important, and these type of activities take place during the work day and are easily confused with "real work" because no matter how many urgent but unimportant tasks you engage in, you contribute nothing to your work or your company.<br />
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Other activities such as reading the newspaper at work or taking a long lunch are neither urgent nor important. Be aware that spending too much time on these activities can be harmful to your career because they consume your valuable time which could otherwise be invested towards getting results for which you are paid and upon which your future depends! <br />
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For those who are not familiar with it, here’s a picture and a brief overview.<br />
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<div style="text-align: left;">Covey's matrix allows any individual who uses it to easily see where they are spending their time so they can make adjustments. </div><div style="text-align: left;"> </div><div style="text-align: left;">Let's recap. Here's how to develop time management skills using the matrix. </div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; color: black; text-align: center;"><a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_SfSOKz4FR0o/TLVGOJtclvI/AAAAAAAAAHU/3oh2TUeBIhE/s1600/merrillcoveymatrix.png" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"> </a></div><ul><li>Important & Urgent - Do them now the best you can</li>
<li>Important & Not Urgent - Set focus here, whenever you can </li>
<li>Not Important & Urgent - Learn to say "No" or delegate tasks in order to maintain focus on the important; not urgent</li>
<li>Not Important & Not Urgent -Avoid these for sure</li>
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<div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial; font-size: small;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: 13px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial,Verdana,sans-serif; line-height: 20px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: 13px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 20px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: 12px; line-height: 18px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;">Today, and especially in my generation, there are many that want to be leaders. Many want positions, but no one wants to put in the work to develop the character and skills that are crucial for effectiveness. </span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial; font-size: small;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: 13px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial,Verdana,sans-serif; line-height: 20px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: 13px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 20px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: 12px; line-height: 18px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;"><br />
</span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial; font-size: small;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: 13px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial,Verdana,sans-serif; line-height: 20px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: 13px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 20px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: 12px; line-height: 18px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'; font-size: medium; line-height: normal;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial; font-size: small;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: 13px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial,Verdana,sans-serif; line-height: 20px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;">I'm sure you've all heard of the saying, <i>wearing too many hats is bad for business</i>. Everyone wants to be a leader but they're afraid to delegate and hire people smarter than them because they maybe think it will make them look too small. <i><b>Does that sound like you?</b></i></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial; font-size: small;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: 13px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial,Verdana,sans-serif; line-height: 20px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: 13px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 20px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: 12px; line-height: 18px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'; font-size: medium; line-height: normal;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial; font-size: small;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: 13px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial,Verdana,sans-serif; line-height: 20px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;"></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span><br />
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</span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></div><div class="art_top" style="font-size: 13px; line-height: 1.6em; margin: 0px 0px 10px ! important; padding: 0px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial; font-size: small;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: 13px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial,Verdana,sans-serif; line-height: 20px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: 13px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 20px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: 12px; line-height: 18px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'; font-size: medium; line-height: normal;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;">In fact, the opposite is true. </span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; font-size: small;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: 13px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 20px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: 13px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 20px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: 12px; line-height: 18px;"><span class="Apple-style-span"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium; line-height: normal;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"><span class="Apple-style-span">Let's help identify, <i><b>what type of leader are you? </b></i></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; font-size: small;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: 13px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 20px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: 13px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 20px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: 12px; line-height: 18px;"><span class="Apple-style-span"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium; line-height: normal;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"><span class="Apple-style-span">Understanding this will guarantee you to see better and work smarter.</span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span><br />
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</span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></div></div></div></div></div></div></div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: 13px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 20px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: 13px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 20px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: 12px; line-height: 18px;"><span class="Apple-style-span">To be honest, I’ve probably been all four of the following types of leaders at some point in my life. However, for the past several years I’ve made the decision to develop as a “Skillful Servant.”</span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: 13px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 20px;"></span></span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: 12px; line-height: 18px;"><br />
</span></span></div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #333333; font-size: 12px; line-height: 18px;"></span></div><ul style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;"><li style="background-color: transparent; border-width: 0px; font-size: 12px; list-style-type: circle; margin: 0px; outline-width: 0px; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;"><b style="background-color: transparent; border-width: 0px; font-size: 12px; margin: 0px; outline-width: 0px; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: black;"><span class="Apple-style-span">The “There’s No One Else” Leader.</span></span></b><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: black;"><span class="Apple-style-span"> This is the person that is in a position because for any number of reasons, there is no one else that can do it. They aren’t necessarily qualified or possibly even interested. Most of us have been and will have to be that leader at some point because we may be specialized and have those "God given" skills and talents. </span></span></li>
<li style="background-color: transparent; border-width: 0px; font-size: 12px; list-style-type: circle; margin: 0px; outline-width: 0px; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;"><b style="background-color: transparent; border-width: 0px; font-size: 12px; margin: 0px; outline-width: 0px; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: black;"><span class="Apple-style-span">The “Passion Without Preparation” Leader.</span></span></b><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: black;"><span class="Apple-style-span"> This is the leader that is given leadership responsibility because of their passion for an area and then finds themselves in over their heads because they are unprepared for the totality of the position. The heart is there but they’re lacking the skill. This person has hope.</span></span></li>
<li style="background-color: transparent; border-width: 0px; font-size: 12px; list-style-type: circle; margin: 0px; outline-width: 0px; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;"><b style="background-color: transparent; border-width: 0px; font-size: 12px; margin: 0px; outline-width: 0px; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: black;"><span class="Apple-style-span">The “Ego Without the Expertise” Leader. </span></span></b><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: black;"><span class="Apple-style-span">This is probably my least favorite. This is the leader that thinks they know everything there is to know about their area of responsibility, however everyone else knows (and clearly sees) the real truth — they have no idea what they’re doing. They’re erroneously correcting everyone and everything all the time. They’re unteachable and unfruitful. Who wants to follow a leader like this? Not many, because people follow a leader's actions not their words. </span></span></li>
</ul><ul style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;"><li><b style="background-color: transparent; border-width: 0px; font-size: 12px; margin: 0px; outline-width: 0px; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: black;"><span class="Apple-style-span">The “Skillful Servant” Leader.</span></span></b><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: black;"><span class="Apple-style-span"> This leader is competent and prepared, and has the character to match. They are teachable, open, and flexible. They utilize the strengths of their team members, and are not threatened by the skills </span></span><span class="Apple-style-span"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: black;">of others. They lead by serving with humility and in result, they leave a legacy.</span></span><span class="Apple-style-span"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: black;"> </span></span><br />
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This 6-speed, F140 Aluminum V12, 4700cc engine with 660hp was built to go 0-60 in 3.8 seconds and race at 217 miles an hour (2010 specs). But here it is… stuck.<br />
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Sometimes it’s not the car; <i>it’s the one given the responsibility to drive it.</i><br />
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<b>Are you even aware that you are a race car?</b> You were specially engineered and designed for speed… to race. You were built for greatness. I’m not kidding. You are a miracle of machinery. Yes, you… the one reading this. It’s likely you have never even experienced half of what your top speed is.<br />
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<b><i>In the same sense, I have to ask... are you living up to your name? </i></b><br />
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Our name we were given is important to us. Have you ever been somewhere when a person<a href="http://changingminds.org/techniques/conversation/name/using_name.htm"> used your name</a>, perhaps in conversation with someone else across the other side of the room? A common reaction is to suddenly pay attention. Are they talking about you? Are they trying to get your attention?<br />
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We all have an earned name, <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Reputation">a reputation</a>. A person's name is associated with their character. It is important to remember that reputation is not about our image in front of others. A truly good name comes from qualities that go beneath the impressions made on the surface. <b>It is the result of integrity, depth of character, and sincerity.</b> So, whenever you feel stuck, just think of the Ferrari and remember, <a href="https://www.businessknowhow.com/growth/greatness.htm">you were built for greatness.</a><br />
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One of my favorite authors, Stephen Covey, said this:<br />
<blockquote><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, Geneva, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">"Ineffective people live day after day with unused potential. They experience synergy only in small, peripheral ways in their lives. But creative experiences can be produced regularly, consistently, almost daily in people's lives. It requires enormous personal security and openness and a spirit of adventure." -Stephen Covey</span></blockquote> <br />
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</i><div class="blogger-post-footer">About Matt Sileno: Matt Sileno, the President/Founder of TheIntuitive Group, Inc. is no stranger to hard work and overcoming adversity. He has taken his small Sales and Marketing Firm to new heights working directly with Fortune 100 and Fortune 500 companies across the U.S.</div>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2887543291146806523.post-5111933707683452122010-09-22T23:20:00.000-07:002010-09-28T12:19:19.145-07:00True Belief Requires Action<div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;"><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_SfSOKz4FR0o/TKItM3PNXyI/AAAAAAAAAGc/5C1hfIcuT-4/s1600/images.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_SfSOKz4FR0o/TKItM3PNXyI/AAAAAAAAAGc/5C1hfIcuT-4/s1600/images.jpg" /></a></div><b><i><u><span style="color: #20124d;"><br />
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<b><i><u><span style="color: #20124d;">The perspective looking forward always seems longer than the perspective looking back.</span></u></i></b></div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;"><br />
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</div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;">Do you remember as a kid what it felt like to anticipate the arrival of Christmas day? The Thanksgiving feast and Christmas seemed like forever to your childhood perspective. But it always came. And once it arrived, you were sure it was only yesterday that you had been eating holiday turkey and watching the Thanksgiving Day parade on your mother's lap. </div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;"><br />
</div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;">I have the same feeling when I'm driving or flying somewhere on a trip. Going en route to the destination always seems to take long but in contrast, the trip back home seems so quick. </div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;"><br />
</div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;"><u><i><span style="color: #20124d;"><b>Action speaks our true belief</b></span></i></u></div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;"><br />
</div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;">As adults we're not too different from children. We look at the future as if it will never come. Intellectually we believe it will, but only action speaks our true belief. </div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;"><br />
</div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;">Here is a very interesting story I read about recently. </div><blockquote style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;"></blockquote><blockquote style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;">During the 19th century there lived a dynamic tightrope-walker and showman named Charles Blondin. He was undoubtedly the greatest funambulist that ever lived. (A funambulist by the way is <span id="main" style="visibility: visible;"><span id="topstuff" style="visibility: visible;">an acrobat who performs on a tightrope</span></span>.) His thirst for new and daring stunts was unquenchable. In 1959 at the age of 35, he became the first person to cross Niagara Falls on a tight-rope, 1100 feet long and 160 feet above the water! History reports that Blondin accomplished this feat numerous times, always with different theatrical variations. Such as being blindfolded, in a sack, on stilts, carrying a man on his back, and sitting down midway while he cooked and ate an omelet. </blockquote><blockquote style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;">He dazzled everyone with his brilliant skill. They were amazed. He made every crossing without a hitch. One day as the crowd gathered, he stepped off the wire, grabbed an empty wheelbarrow and stepped back onto the perilous wire. Again he proceeded to amaze the crowd as he pushed the wheelbarrow back and forth high above the crashing waterfall. After he made his way back to the crowd, he stepped off the tight-rope a second time, looked straight at the astonished people, and asked this question. "Who believes I can walk across this wire with a wheelbarrow?" Every hand shot up. Because they had just witnessed this masterful feat. While all the hands were still raised, he pointed at a young man in the front row and said, "Please sir, get in the wheelbarrow." Quickly everyone's hands went down and the young man slipped away and escaped to safety. </blockquote><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;">If it had been me I would have done the same thing...run for safety. As crazy as the story is, the point goes to show that often times our belief is only intellectual. In all areas of life, it's also true that without commitment and action, our beliefs will only be beliefs. It's not enough to say, "Knowledge is power." The reality is, "<i><b>Applied</b></i><b><i> knowledge is power</i></b>."</div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;"><br />
</div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;"><u><i><span style="color: #20124d;"><b>Start Now: </b></span></i></u><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 19px;"><b><i><u><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #20124d;">Preparation leads to confidence and success.</span></u></i></b></span></div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;"><br />
</div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;">Therefore, don't fall into the trap of believing you have plenty of time before you need to start acting. The time will pass by more quickly than you think. It is wise to position yourself so that when you come to that point in your life, whether it's ten or twenty years from now, you will have choices. <b>And those choices will be the ones you desire, not ones forced upon you due to lack of planning.</b></div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;"><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 19px;">How do you prepare for your missions? Are you mission-ready? Do you execute a well-prepared plan, or do you fly by the seat of your pants and simply react when adversity strikes? <b>Preparation</b> is a critical factor to reaching your potential. </span><br />
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<ul><li><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 19px;">Study your competition</span></li>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Please follow us on <a href="http://twitter.com/intuitivegroup">Twitter</a> and add my Facebook page <a href="http://www.facebook.com/pages/Vienna-VA/The-Intuitive-Group-Inc/110443464167?ref=ts">The Intuitive Group, Inc.</a></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #333333; font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"></span><div class="blogger-post-footer">About Matt Sileno: Matt Sileno, the President/Founder of TheIntuitive Group, Inc. is no stranger to hard work and overcoming adversity. He has taken his small Sales and Marketing Firm to new heights working directly with Fortune 100 and Fortune 500 companies across the U.S.</div>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2887543291146806523.post-21809599379958454012010-09-20T21:10:00.000-07:002010-09-20T21:25:19.837-07:00Keeping Critics in PerspectiveIn any job, you will be criticized at some point. But the fact is that nobody likes criticism. However there is <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Criticism">constructive criticism</a> and destructive criticism and it's important to assess both types. Here is how you keep critics in perspective:<br />
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3. Critics serve their purpose. Sometimes they serve a larger purpose, and sometimes they serve their own purpose. A good example is <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Simon_Cowell">Simon Cowell</a> from <u><a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/American_Idol">American Idol</a></u>. He was very critical of the performers on the show but was fair and honest and the show is not the same without him. <br />
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4. Everyone has an opinion. In most cases, it's not worth the paper it's written on.<br />
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In the 2007 film<a href="http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0382932/"> "Ratatouille,"</a> Anton Ego, a notoriously harsh English food critic sums up the picture of keeping critics in perspective. He says, "In many ways, the work of a critic is easy. We risk very little yet enjoy a position over those who offer up their work and their selves to our judgment. We thrive on negative criticism, which is fun to write and to read. But the bitter truth we critics must face, is that in the grand scheme of things, the average piece of junk is probably more meaningful than our criticism designating it so. But there are times when a critic truly risks something, and that is in the discovery and defense of the new. The world is often unkind to new talent, new creations..."<br />
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I credit the inspiration of this post to <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Donald_Trump">Donald Trump</a>, someone who knows about "Surviving at the Top"!<div class="blogger-post-footer">About Matt Sileno: Matt Sileno, the President/Founder of TheIntuitive Group, Inc. is no stranger to hard work and overcoming adversity. He has taken his small Sales and Marketing Firm to new heights working directly with Fortune 100 and Fortune 500 companies across the U.S.</div>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2887543291146806523.post-29422710801858521152010-09-16T12:18:00.000-07:002010-09-16T12:38:28.861-07:00Attitude Is Basic to Survival<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_SfSOKz4FR0o/TJJtQszuamI/AAAAAAAAAF0/dGnUzskHXfc/s1600/6_thoughts_VC_mind_bkt_5228.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_SfSOKz4FR0o/TJJtQszuamI/AAAAAAAAAF0/dGnUzskHXfc/s320/6_thoughts_VC_mind_bkt_5228.jpg" /></a></div><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Who you are is </span><b><i><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">not entirely </span></i><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-weight: normal;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">determined by how you look, where you live, or who your parents were. There's that common statement that we are all products of our environment and there are various factors that make up who we are, yet I want to emphasize that </span></span><i><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">who you are is a function of specific choices that you have made</span></i><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-weight: normal;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">. You are where you are and what you are because of the dominating thoughts that occupy your mind. </span></span></b><br />
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<b><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-weight: normal;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">The conclusion is obvious:</span></span><i><span class="Apple-style-span"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">We are what we are - not what we appear to be on the outside. </span></span></i></b><b><i></i></b><br />
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If you want to move to a new level in your life quickly, begin by dividing your thoughts into two categories: empowering and disempowering. Observe them, and determine if they are supporting your happiness and success. Choose to entertain only the empowering thoughts, and refuse to focus on the disempowering ones. When a nonsupportive notion comes to the surface, replace it with a more supportive way of thinking. This process is called </span></span></span> <span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: x-large;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-weight: normal;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-style: normal;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">“power thinking.”</span></span></span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-weight: normal;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-style: normal;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"> If you practice it, your life will never be the same.<br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"> People use positive thinking to </span><i><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">pretend</span></i><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"> that everything is rosy when they really believe it is not. With power thinking, though, we understand that something is neutral until we assign it meaning by creating a story.<br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">With that said, we can now move on to applying this concept of "attitude".</span><br />
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It is important to remember that </span><b><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">you are not your mind</span></b><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">—</span><b><u><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">you are much bigger and more powerful than your mind alone</span></u></b><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">. By learning to train it, though, you can conquer your fear, expand your comfort zone and dramatically increase your wealth.<br />
</span> <i><a href="http://www.successmagazine.com/mind-management/PARAMS/article/732"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">T. Harv Eker</span></a><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">, </span></i><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">New York Times </span><i><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Best-Seller Secrets of the </span></i><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Millionaire Mind</span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #2e2b1e; font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', Times, serif; font-size: small;"> </span><div class="blogger-post-footer">About Matt Sileno: Matt Sileno, the President/Founder of TheIntuitive Group, Inc. is no stranger to hard work and overcoming adversity. He has taken his small Sales and Marketing Firm to new heights working directly with Fortune 100 and Fortune 500 companies across the U.S.</div>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2887543291146806523.post-89956515858402431772010-09-15T14:12:00.000-07:002010-09-15T14:12:23.461-07:00What is EXTRAORDINARY? A simple yet profound lesson.I'm an avid reader and today this caught my eye. A post from Darren Hardy, Publisher of Success Magazine, about an interview he hosted with the one and only Donald Trump. This big company brought together 20,000 of its associates and probably paid close to $100,000 just to hear him speak live in person. To go to an event such as this, I myself would be eager to learn from a "Billionaire." But the simple lesson learned in this interview is so profound. <br />
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"Donald has a reputation of being a tad bit capricious in his commentary and particularly rough on interviewers. So I was ready, I had my knives sharpened in case he started throwing down. He didn’t. In fact, he was really a sweetheart of a guy.<br />
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I was asked afterward what surprised me most about the interview. I shouldn’t be surprised anymore, as every time I interview an extraordinary superachiever I walk away with the same realization. There really isn’t anything that extraordinary about them.<br />
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What I mean is their answers to all the probing success questions are usually the same, simple and not extraordinary.<br />
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What is extraordinary is that they actually DO the simple principles of success—relentlessly, passionately and consistently. And unfortunately that IS extraordinary." <br />
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Read the rest of the article at <a href="http://darrenhardy.success.com/">http://darrenhardy.success.com/</a>.<div class="blogger-post-footer">About Matt Sileno: Matt Sileno, the President/Founder of TheIntuitive Group, Inc. is no stranger to hard work and overcoming adversity. He has taken his small Sales and Marketing Firm to new heights working directly with Fortune 100 and Fortune 500 companies across the U.S.</div>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2887543291146806523.post-28781724689565268492010-09-07T14:17:00.000-07:002010-09-07T14:28:46.383-07:00How today’s young creative professionals stay fresh and come up with new ideas<span style="font-size: large;">How can you nurture yourself so that you bring out your best side and your best work? Here are some tried and tested ways that have helped me and many of my friends:</span><br />
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Creativity is a difficult thing to force. While young professionals have always faced the challenge of coming up with fresh new ideas, the time crush in today’s hectic business world makes it even tougher.<br />
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Every year, the company BrightHouse holds an event known as March Fourth. On that date, each employee is encouraged to do something -- jump from a plane, scuba-dive, start writing a novel -- he or she has never attempted. "If we're known for anything, it's possibilitarianism," says CEO Reiman. Maddock Douglas, meanwhile, gives an annual <em>Fail Forward award</em>, which is designed to celebrate endeavors both ambitious and disastrous. <br />
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Think about it, starting a business or coming up with a new fresh idea IS risky. However the dividends are phenomenal. Bill Gates is a perfect example. Twenty years ago, nobody really owned computers. When they were first invented I'm pretty sure that the concept caught a lot of controversy. Now, every single household owns a computer, probably more than one. You can't even run a business effectively without a computer.<br />
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Creative folks enjoy applying their talents to noble causes -- and, increasingly, their employers keep them happy by providing opportunities to do so. Rewarding people for thinking outside the box truly brings value back to the business. To promote creativity it's better to reward people not for the hours they put in but for the size of their hearts.<br />
<div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;">As an entrepreneur, finding someone who thinks like you isn't easy, so when you do, make sure you involve them in every aspect of your business. I follow what I call the "hit by a bus" philosophy. Imagine you got hit by a bus. Would there be someone there to take over the business while you recovered? There should be. Thinking about it this way will force you to mold a person to handle even bigger responsibilities, once again freeing you up to tackle the future. </div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;"><br />
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</div><div class="blogger-post-footer">About Matt Sileno: Matt Sileno, the President/Founder of TheIntuitive Group, Inc. is no stranger to hard work and overcoming adversity. He has taken his small Sales and Marketing Firm to new heights working directly with Fortune 100 and Fortune 500 companies across the U.S.</div>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2887543291146806523.post-74776198918609932982010-08-23T14:34:00.000-07:002010-08-23T16:31:37.538-07:00The Story About Persistence<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_SfSOKz4FR0o/THLoEoBxB1I/AAAAAAAAAEs/Sr7pYiOpIKU/s1600/39028_1513130341569_1033731136_1516829_2826178_n.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" ox="true" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_SfSOKz4FR0o/THLoEoBxB1I/AAAAAAAAAEs/Sr7pYiOpIKU/s320/39028_1513130341569_1033731136_1516829_2826178_n.jpg" /></a></div>We all have the<span style="color: #073763;"> power of spirit</span>. In Rich Dad Poor Dad, Kiyosaki pinpoints that for someone to move to action, he or she <b><span style="color: #990000;">needs a reason greater than reality</span></b>. He says, if you ask most people if they would like to be rich or financially free, they would say <i>“yes.” </i><b>But then reality sets in.</b> The road seems too long with too many hills to climb. It’s easier to just work for money. <br />
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<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_SfSOKz4FR0o/THLoRfBtN0I/AAAAAAAAAE0/jbAW_7xb-8U/s1600/colonel-sanders.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" ox="true" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_SfSOKz4FR0o/THLoRfBtN0I/AAAAAAAAAE0/jbAW_7xb-8U/s320/colonel-sanders.jpg" /></a></div>At the age of 66, Colonel Sanders lost his business and began to live on his Social Security check. <b>It wasn’t enough.</b> He went around the country selling his recipe for fried chicken. He was<i style="background-color: #666666; color: #f3f3f3;"> turned down 1,009 times</i> before someone said “yes.” And he went onto become a multimillionaire at an age <i>when most people are quitting</i>. He was a brave and tenacious man…<br />
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<span style="color: #351c75; font-size: large;">What drives people to accomplish what seems the impossible to many?</span><br />
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There was a young woman who had dreams of swimming for the U.S. Olympic team. The reality was, she had to get up every morning at 4 a.m. to swim for three hours before going to school. She did not party with her friends on Saturday night. She had to study to keep her grades up just like everyone else. <br />
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A reason or a purpose is a combination of <b>“wants”</b> and “<b>don’t wants</b>”. In order to have the persistence to overcome any adversity, you must identify your deepest emotional reasons. Come up with the list of “Don’t wants” because they actually create your “wants” list. <br />
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I don’t want to work my whole life. <br />
I don’t want what my parents aspired for, which was job security and a house in the suburbs. <br />
I don’t like being an employee.<br />
I hated that my dad always missed my games because he was so busy working on a career. <br />
I hated it when my dad worked hard all his life and the government took most of what he worked for at his death.<br />
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<b><span style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;">Examples of “wants”:</span></b><br />
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I want to be free to travel the world and live the lifestyle I love. <br />
I want to be young when I do this.<br />
I want to have freedom. <br />
I want control over my time and my life.<br />
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<b><span style="background-color: #444444; color: #f3f3f3; font-family: Georgia,"Times New Roman",serif; font-size: large;">What are yours??</span></b><br />
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<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_SfSOKz4FR0o/THLoiXz9Q6I/AAAAAAAAAE8/7DCCxJrAUcw/s1600/portrait-thumbnail.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" ox="true" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_SfSOKz4FR0o/THLoiXz9Q6I/AAAAAAAAAE8/7DCCxJrAUcw/s320/portrait-thumbnail.jpg" /></a></div><div style="border: medium none;">About Matt Sileno: Matt Sileno, the President/Founder of <a href="http://theintuitivegroup-dc.com/">The Intuitive Group, Inc.</a> is no stranger to hard work and overcoming adversity. He has taken his small Sales and Marketing Firm to new heights working directly with Fortune 100 and Fortune 500 companies across the U.S. </div><div style="border: medium none;">Follow us on Twitter and Facebook!</div><div class="blogger-post-footer">About Matt Sileno: Matt Sileno, the President/Founder of TheIntuitive Group, Inc. is no stranger to hard work and overcoming adversity. He has taken his small Sales and Marketing Firm to new heights working directly with Fortune 100 and Fortune 500 companies across the U.S.</div>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2887543291146806523.post-81007706628285902252010-08-05T18:58:00.000-07:002010-08-18T14:15:53.004-07:00It is hard to listen with your mouth open<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_SfSOKz4FR0o/TFtzFEYUsMI/AAAAAAAAAEk/SLC3_HnM6Go/s1600/active_listening.jpg"><img style="float:right; margin:0 0 10px 10px;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 320px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_SfSOKz4FR0o/TFtzFEYUsMI/AAAAAAAAAEk/SLC3_HnM6Go/s320/active_listening.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5502117900675494082" /></a><br />
<span style="font-weight:bold;">There's a reason God created us with 2 ears and only 1 mouth!<br />
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Are you the person who interjects into each and every conversation? Do you feel the need to correct someone who is speaking immediately? Do you find yourself sometimes speaking before you actually know what is going on? If so, you are no different than 95 or 96% of the population. You are not a great listener. <br />
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I picked up this great material from an accomplished keynote speaker Darren Hardy to help us learn something new today.<br />
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<blockquote></blockquote>Contrary to what many might think (and many practice), the most important job of a leader is not to speak, preach, direct or advise….<br />
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The most important job of a leader is to listen.<span style="font-style:italic;"></span></span><br />
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I personally believe if we just developed and improved the habit or listening, <span style="font-style:italic;">active listening</span>, then the world would be a much better place. Have you ever gotten into a misunderstanding or dispute with someone, only to regret saying things you didn't mean? Statements were made in anger, and yet those words can't be taken back. As a result of lack of listening, people tend to invalidate and hurt each other. <br />
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Don’t be an Offender, Intruder, Blockhead or Egoist. </span><br />
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<blockquote></blockquote><span style="font-weight:bold;">The Offenders.</span> These people are the worst. They make it clear you are so unimportant or they are so bored by your conversation that they look at something else while you talk (BlackBerry, e-mail, brochure, someone else over your shoulder, anywhere else but directly in your eyes).<br />
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It is well-known that one of Bill Clinton’s most compelling traits is his ability to listen deeply to whoever is speaking to him, no matter who else or how many other people are in the room. It is said that if he is talking with someone, he won’t even break eye contact to reach for his glass of water. He will feel his way to it, but he will never, ever break eye contact. He treats you and makes you feel like the most important person on the planet when you are talking. We all should strive to be that influential.<br />
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The Intruders.</span> These are people who can’t be bothered to let you finish your sentence before cutting you off, figuring out (falsely) what you were going to say, and giving your their interrupted opinion.<br />
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The Blockheads.</span> They spend the conversation thinking about what to say rather than listening at all. They will scan the conversation, lock onto a point they want to make and shut off hearing you at all so they don’t lose their mental point—making it obvious with their facial expressions and body language that they are impatiently waiting for you to (finally) take a breath or end your (dang) sentence. They then respond, and you realize they didn’t listen to you and missed the point completely.<br />
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<span style="font-weight:bold;">The Egoists.</span> Instead of listening to you and caring about your story, your feelings and experience, they “me-ize” your comments and respond with their similar experience, problem or yarn.<br />
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These are the most fun to watch (and most common), as people will volley from person to person changing the conversation to them rather than listening and engaging the original storyteller.<br />
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<span style="font-style:italic;">Recognize anyone in the above? Friends, colleagues, family members—yourself?</span><br />
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Don’t be an Offender, Intruder, Blockhead or Egoist.</span> Listen so intently that the other person feels they are the most important person in the world while they are speaking.<br />
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What do you do to make people feel heard, validated and important while they are talking? What are your best listening practices?<div class="blogger-post-footer">About Matt Sileno: Matt Sileno, the President/Founder of TheIntuitive Group, Inc. is no stranger to hard work and overcoming adversity. He has taken his small Sales and Marketing Firm to new heights working directly with Fortune 100 and Fortune 500 companies across the U.S.</div>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2887543291146806523.post-4167589533994257392010-07-28T09:10:00.000-07:002010-07-28T14:10:39.685-07:00"Self-esteem that is deeper than self-protection"<a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_SfSOKz4FR0o/TFCcsP1TC7I/AAAAAAAAAEc/eblWd43xQJI/s1600/self-esteem.jpg"><img style="float:right; margin:0 0 10px 10px;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 272px; height: 320px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_SfSOKz4FR0o/TFCcsP1TC7I/AAAAAAAAAEc/eblWd43xQJI/s320/self-esteem.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5499067428997630898" /></a><br />"Self-esteem that is deeper than self-protection"<br /><br /><em>Protecting oneself</em> from outside forces and influences is a natural reaction. But sometimes people allow that to come at the expense of their own self-esteem. They protect themselves by going along and not standing out. This is contrary to true leadership. Leaders must be able to stand out and, by doing so, put themselves in a vulnerable position. Having the self-esteem to stick to your core convictions may leave you vulnerable, but no true leader ever succeeded under a roof of self-protection. Leaders are more of risk takers because in order to rise above you cannot settle for the status quo.<br /><br /><strong>Be Nimble, and Willing to Fail</strong><br /><br />"I make mistakes faster than anybody," says Matt Sileno, founder of The Intuitive Group, Inc. a marketing company based in Vienna, VA. "I think, go, do," he continues. "While the competition is figuring out what to do, we've tried two different things and have figured out the right one."<br /><br />As a leader, it's essential to me that when I make a mistake, I want it to be brought to my attention. I am comfortable admitting my mistakes.<br /><br /><strong>Being myself is important</strong><br /><br />Self-esteem is critical to your career success. You need lots of it at all stages of your career - whether it's for a job search, as a new employee, working with others, or dealing with stress and deadlines. If you're like most people, you may wonder if you've got enough self-esteem to reach your career goals. Fortunately, there are steps that you can take to build and strengthen your self-worth.<br /><br /> 1. Understand yourself <br /><br /> 2. Improve your awareness <br /><br /> 3. Work on your attitude <br /><br /> 4. Believe in yourself and your potentials <br /><br /> 5. Develop your skills <br /><br /> 6. Set your goals <br /><br /> 7. Begin with the end in mind<br /><br />I interviewed a friend who is now an entrepreneur and used to do retail for many years. He said, "Before I started working for myself, I didn't know I had low self-esteem. I used to think I was just being negative. I was unhappy with my job but did not have the confidence to leave it. It made me aware that the way I react to situations is based on how I feel about myself."<br /><br />Self esteem was once viewed as a purely psychological need, but now it’s also economic. With rapid changes occurring in the global economy, the number of choices and decisions we make on a daily basis is increasing. With that, so does the urgency and importance of self esteem. By knowing and recognizing your self-value and worth, you will become more independent to make the best possible decisions for yourself. This is exactly what is needed to succeed in this rapidly changing and competitive world of ours. <br /><br />I want to make one more last important note: self esteem and ego are not the same.<br />Self-esteem is an internal job. It is you telling you how good you are, whilst always maintaining a firm grip on reality. Ego is telling everyone else how good you are and is often driven by fear of rejection.<div class="blogger-post-footer">About Matt Sileno: Matt Sileno, the President/Founder of TheIntuitive Group, Inc. is no stranger to hard work and overcoming adversity. He has taken his small Sales and Marketing Firm to new heights working directly with Fortune 100 and Fortune 500 companies across the U.S.</div>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2887543291146806523.post-26706402220102466912010-07-27T10:32:00.000-07:002010-07-27T10:49:07.757-07:00What are some good strategies for boosting employee morale?<a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_SfSOKz4FR0o/TE8b9Pc9SvI/AAAAAAAAAEU/oRjGB5uF9xE/s1600/NIFNingiStockphoto.jpg"><img style="float:right; margin:0 0 10px 10px;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 213px;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_SfSOKz4FR0o/TE8b9Pc9SvI/AAAAAAAAAEU/oRjGB5uF9xE/s320/NIFNingiStockphoto.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5498644408976624370" /></a><br /><a href="http://theintuitivegroup-dc.com/">The Intuitive Group, Inc.</a> really believes in promoting team environments and places great emphasis on recognition. <br />It is more important now than ever to focus on developing a positive relationship with employees. If your company has had layoffs, furloughs, or a hiring freeze, the workers who are left are probably working harder than ever as they absorb the work that former employees did in addition to their existing jobs. <br /><br /><strong>What are you doing to keep spirits up around the workplace?</strong><div class="blogger-post-footer">About Matt Sileno: Matt Sileno, the President/Founder of TheIntuitive Group, Inc. is no stranger to hard work and overcoming adversity. He has taken his small Sales and Marketing Firm to new heights working directly with Fortune 100 and Fortune 500 companies across the U.S.</div>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2887543291146806523.post-82059124441287801432010-07-21T13:04:00.000-07:002010-07-23T09:49:19.195-07:00Step 3 to developing courageous leadership<a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_SfSOKz4FR0o/TEiDSch4ghI/AAAAAAAAAEM/UCq3u3UskwA/s1600/spirituality.jpg"><img style="float:right; margin:0 0 10px 10px;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 214px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_SfSOKz4FR0o/TEiDSch4ghI/AAAAAAAAAEM/UCq3u3UskwA/s320/spirituality.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5496787698124882450" /></a><br /><br /><strong>"Spiritual sensitivity that is louder than popular opinion"</strong><br /><br />Many people try to check their spirituality at the door when it comes to work and leadership, when in actuality they are inseparable. Spirituality is the core of who you are. Unfortunately, many allow trends, popular opinion, or even a louder voice in the room win over what they truly know and believe in their heart. Spiritual strength is essential to establishing a firm moral foundation that cannot be blown over or toppled by the voices around them. This is so important because our words and actions reflect what’s on the inside. <em><strong>Our quality of leadership is built on this value system. </strong></em> Each of us was created with a specific purpose in mind.<br /><br /><strong>Values – Yes They Still Matter</strong><br /><br />Situational ethics is now being taught in many of our public schools. One teacher, wanting to illustrate that human reasoning is many times wrong, gave the following situation to a class of high school students: "How would you advise a mother who was pregnant with her fifth child based on the following facts. Her husband had syphilis and she had tuberculosis. Their first child was born blind, the second child died. A third child was born deaf while their fourth child had tuberculosis. The mother is considering an abortion. Would you advise her to have one?" In view of these facts, most of the students agreed that the mother should have an abortion. The teacher then announced, "If you said 'yes', you would have just killed the great composer, Ludwig von Beethoven." <br /><br /><strong>Spirituality plays a key role in ethical leadership.</strong> Moreover, spirituality demands that leaders cultivate and nurture a sense of self that recognizes interrelatedness of life and a sense of community. <br /><br /><strong>Identity: </strong><em>Who you think you are?</em> Self-awareness comes with an understanding of how you view yourself. The operative word in this question is think; that is, how do you perceive yourself. <br /><br /><strong>Achievement:</strong> What have you done lately? There is a sharp distinction between what we think we achieve and what others think we achieve. If the two are not in parallel, we feel out of sync. The challenge becomes in finding meaning and satisfaction in what we do and harmonizing it with what we are challenged to do. No easy task.<br /><br /><strong>Reputation:</strong> What do other people think you are? Reputation is the combination of identity and achievements as seen by others. Lucky for you if your self-image matches your public persona! But if you are like most of us, you have work to do to make certain that who you are and what you think you do matches the impact that you are having on others.<br /><br /><strong>Acceptance:</strong> What can you change, and what is beyond your control? Goals are good, but they can sometimes prevent us from achieving understanding our inner selves. The challenge arises from learning what you can change (your behavior) and what you cannot change (other people). Acceptance becomes important; otherwise you will cause yourself and others around you much unhappiness.<br /><br />A leader’s spiritual sensitivity can also help you instill accountability within the company culture. If you have values concerning behavior, then when someone steps out of line, you can call their attention to the inconsistency. There is clear communication that certain behavior is not tolerated. You have instilled values and you hold people accountable for living up to them. Conformity to values is critical because it becomes the platform upon which you ensure that people strive toward the vision and work at the mission; that is, people draw together. <br /><br />Organizations that are successful in this regard integrate their values into performance objectives. That way employees know more than what they are supposed to do; they know how they are supposed to do it with respect for ideas, dignity for colleagues and trust in the system. And when those things are not in sync, you work to fix it. <br /><br />Overall, <strong>spirituality and ethics </strong>will play an increasingly important role in the development of leadership for the future. With the increasing advancement in science, technology, and business, next generation leaders face a significant challenge to serve the interests of human development and the environment.<br /><br />Follow us on <a href="http://twitter.com/intuitivegroup">Twitter</a>!<br /><br />About The Intuitive Group, Inc.<br />The Intuitive Group, Inc. is headed by Matthew Sileno and headquartered in Vienna, Virginia. The company specializes in direct marketing by bringing products and services directly to consumers. The company works with team members from day one to train them for the job and for the rest of their lives. The skills gained help team members excel in the company and in life. The Intuitive Group, Inc. is accredited by the Better Business Bureau (BBB), adhering to BBB Code of Business Practices dedicated to sound advertising, selling and customer service practices that enhance customer trust and confidence in business. For more information about The Intuitive Group, Inc. please visit http://www.theintuitivegroup-dc.com/<br /><br /><br />The Intuitive Group, Inc.<br />8233 Old Courthouse Rd Ste 330<br />Vienna, VA 22182<br /><br />Tel (703) 388-2863<br />Fax (703) 388-2894<br /><script type="text/javascript"><br /><br /> var _gaq = _gaq || [];<br /> _gaq.push(['_setAccount', 'UA-17611280-1']);<br /> _gaq.push(['_trackPageview']);<br /><br /> (function() {<br /> var ga = document.createElement('script'); ga.type = 'text/javascript'; ga.async = true;<br /> ga.src = ('https:' == document.location.protocol ? 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He has taken his small Sales and Marketing Firm to new heights working directly with Fortune 100 and Fortune 500 companies across the U.S.</div>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2887543291146806523.post-56833320145113075512010-07-19T14:13:00.000-07:002010-07-20T11:01:52.023-07:00Step TWO to developing courageous leadership<a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_SfSOKz4FR0o/TETAVtZDdtI/AAAAAAAAAD8/_eCM43MBd_k/s1600/MissionVision.jpg"><img style="float:right; margin:0 0 10px 10px;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 212px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_SfSOKz4FR0o/TETAVtZDdtI/AAAAAAAAAD8/_eCM43MBd_k/s320/MissionVision.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5495728924493313746" /></a><br /><em><strong>"Vision that is clearer than my doubts"</strong></em><br /><br />For any leader, vision is essential. A leader must be able to see where they are now, and look ahead to where they strive to be. This is a key in having a strong, clear vision. Someone who lacks vision won’t want to take any risks because they only see the short term outcome and not the long term results 6 months, 2 years, or 5 years down the road. <br /><br />Contrary to the popular belief, that “leaders are born and not made” I believe leaders are “born-again.” Being a born again leader means having your mind transformed through a paradigm shift. A paradigm shift is a 180 degree shift in your perspective. People blind since birth that are suddenly enabled to see is what a paradigm shift feels like. What it does is stretch your mind. "A mind that is stretched by a new experience can never go back to its old dimensions."— Oliver Wendell Holmes<br /><br />The secret to creating visionary leaders is not to tell people what great leaders do hoping they will be able to do the same. Visionary leadership results naturally from the inner workings of the mind -drives, intentions, values and beliefs- not from being told what to do. A visionary leader acts based on values and intentions that are aligned with desired outcomes and that lead to impressive results.<br /><br />While any vision comes with doubt, the doubt cannot be paralyzing to achieving the vision. There will be people that “rain” on your parade, however a visionary leader understands that the hard work and sacrifice made now will pay endless dividends later. <br /><br />Magic Johnson is a great example of a visionary leader. Read his story here: <a href="http://www.evancarmichael.com/Famous-Entrepreneurs/3341/Turning-the-Magic-On-How-Johnson-Built-an-Empire.html">Turning the Magic On: How Johnson Built an Empire</a><div class="blogger-post-footer">About Matt Sileno: Matt Sileno, the President/Founder of TheIntuitive Group, Inc. is no stranger to hard work and overcoming adversity. He has taken his small Sales and Marketing Firm to new heights working directly with Fortune 100 and Fortune 500 companies across the U.S.</div>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2887543291146806523.post-40941811153833646062010-07-16T13:56:00.000-07:002010-07-16T21:27:07.164-07:00Step ONE to developing courageous leadership<a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_SfSOKz4FR0o/TEDKyU-X65I/AAAAAAAAAD0/8oe-vOjfOHQ/s1600/screenshotaa64_crusader_tn.jpg"><img style="float:left; margin:0 10px 10px 0;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 240px;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_SfSOKz4FR0o/TEDKyU-X65I/AAAAAAAAAD0/8oe-vOjfOHQ/s320/screenshotaa64_crusader_tn.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5494614511364598674" /></a><br />Join us as we cover material on 10 steps to developing courageous leadership taken from an internationally respected leadership expert, speaker, and author who has sold more than 18 million books, John Maxwell. Let's break it down, learn, and most importantly apply each step. <span style="font-weight:bold;">In contrast</span> to the saying that "leaders are born", I actually believe that <span style="font-weight:bold;">"leaders are built"</span>. <br /><br /><strong>"Convictions that are stronger than my fears"</strong><br /><br />A <strong>leader</strong> is one who <strong>overcomes their fears</strong>. This may be fears of stepping out, fears of trying something new, or even a fear of standing up to what you know is right. Most everyone has convictions but many are too timid to stand up when those convictions are challenged. The fears created by our own minds restrict us from living a productive life. <br /><br />To succeed as a leader your convictions must overrule your fears. Someone who is a crusader exemplifies this quality. When you think of <strong>crusader</strong>, you may be thinking of The Middle Ages in Europe when religious wars or the “The Crusades” took place. In essence, being a crusader is fighting for or working towards a <strong>cause bigger than you </strong>. You are way past the point of trying to determine how to do things to find results because your <span style="font-weight:bold;">"why"<span style="font-style:italic;"></span></span> is so strong that your beliefs are unshakable. No fear of failure or embarassment or negativity can overcome your desire to succeed. Thus, the way a leader has far-reaching political, economic, and social impacts is by leading a crusade. <br /><br />Today I challenge you to face your fears and become a crusader. <br /><br />Join us on <a href="http://www.facebook.com/home.php?#!/pages/Vienna-VA/The-Intuitive-Group-Inc/110443464167?ref=ts&__a=43&ajaxpipe=1">Facebook</a> and follow us on <a href="http://twitter.com/IntuitiveGroup">Twitter</a>!<div class="blogger-post-footer">About Matt Sileno: Matt Sileno, the President/Founder of TheIntuitive Group, Inc. is no stranger to hard work and overcoming adversity. He has taken his small Sales and Marketing Firm to new heights working directly with Fortune 100 and Fortune 500 companies across the U.S.</div>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2887543291146806523.post-69335607492183280182010-07-08T07:27:00.000-07:002010-07-08T07:41:26.166-07:00Make the World Your Oyster<a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_SfSOKz4FR0o/TDXg1VCMp5I/AAAAAAAAADs/VAF0UbzD56s/s1600/world-oyster-glass-globe.jpg"><img style="float:left; margin:0 10px 10px 0;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 214px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_SfSOKz4FR0o/TDXg1VCMp5I/AAAAAAAAADs/VAF0UbzD56s/s320/world-oyster-glass-globe.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5491542527432238994" /></a><br /><strong>Have a Standard of Excellence to Live By</strong><br /><br />To differentiate from the majority of people who don’t like what they do, you have to actually enjoy what you do.<br /><br />Start your day by doing your job the best you can, and try to do it for a week. Then come back next week and do it all over again. The best you can, not waiting for rewards, not asking for rewards. Don’t wait for results to come, just do the job the best you can. When you get positive feedback from your customers, when you close a new deal – ask yourself: What has changed?<br /><br />You will start loving your job because success will come, first in small steps, but more and more, day by day it will grow. Your customers will start seeing you as a knowledgeable person, your colleagues will see you with different eyes, and you will realize that all of that is important, but most important are feelings inside of you that start building – good feelings about yourself.<br /><br />You will feel worthy, valuable to your customers, colleagues, and you will build that feeling inside of you that you are valuable part of your environment.<br /><br /><strong>Your Standard of Excellence Becomes Bigger</strong><br /><br />You will start feeling that you are helping others – your colleagues to be better, your customers to find the best solution, and by helping them you are actually helping yourself to become a more valuable member of the community. In my humble experience meeting with leaders of world class prestigious and established companies, leaders, founders, and bosses of these companies were polite, approachable, friendly, and open minded. <br /><br /><em><strong>In business, inspire others. Support others. And draw support and inspiration from others…</strong></em><br /><br /><strong>Make the World Your Oyster</strong><br /><br />Your self-respect that you’ve gained with that new knowledge will make the world your oyster. Don’t wait for your employer to send you to a seminar. Be proactive, for yourself and your career. It will benefit you in the long term – with your career and most importantly you will see the difference in your wallet!<br />As a business owner, I maintain an open mind in order to attain new information to help me grow. <br /><br /><strong>In the following I’ll share with you 3 bulletproof actions I implement in my business. <br /><br />1. Set strong goals<br />2. Hit your goals<br />3. Be 100% accountable to yourself and family</strong><br /><br />Overall, I have learned that talent alone never beats the combination of ambition and action!<br /><br /><blockquote><strong><em>About The Intuitive Group, Inc.</em></strong><br />The Intuitive Group, Inc. is headed by <a href="http://www.naymz.com/matt_sileno_3159621">Matthew Sileno </a>and headquartered in Vienna, Virginia. The company specializes in direct marketing by bringing products and services directly to consumers. The company works with team members from day one to train them for the job and for the rest of their lives. The skills gained help team members excel in the company and in life. The Intuitive Group, Inc. is accredited by the <a href="http://dc-easternpa.bbb.org/codbrep.html?wlcl=y&id=152941138">Better Business Bureau (BBB), </a>adhering to BBB Code of Business Practices dedicated to sound advertising, selling and customer service practices that enhance customer trust and confidence in business. For more information about The Intuitive Group, Inc. please visit <a href="http://www.theintuitivegroup-dc.com/">http://www.theintuitivegroup-dc.com/</a><br /><br /><br />The Intuitive Group, Inc.<br />8233 Old Courthouse Rd Ste 330<br />Vienna, VA 22182<br /><br />Tel (703) 388-2863<br />Fax (703) 388-2894</blockquote><blockquote></blockquote><div class="blogger-post-footer">About Matt Sileno: Matt Sileno, the President/Founder of TheIntuitive Group, Inc. is no stranger to hard work and overcoming adversity. He has taken his small Sales and Marketing Firm to new heights working directly with Fortune 100 and Fortune 500 companies across the U.S.</div>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2887543291146806523.post-10248892383493852422010-07-02T13:22:00.000-07:002010-07-06T13:26:00.484-07:00Connect The Dots<a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_SfSOKz4FR0o/TC5L3Qdq27I/AAAAAAAAADk/va4BxS2Np6s/s1600/checklist.jpg"><img style="float:left; margin:0 10px 10px 0;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 240px; height: 320px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_SfSOKz4FR0o/TC5L3Qdq27I/AAAAAAAAADk/va4BxS2Np6s/s320/checklist.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5489408408495512498" /></a><br />When I was young I loved connecting the dots. Remember those pictures with dots and numbers that you had to connect to complete a picture? You had to start at number one and then follow your way one by one along the numbered steps, and pretty quickly a picture would develop. In life, connecting the dots is a much bigger challenge. Now as adults we have to connect life dots such as emotion dots, relationship dots, job dots, decision dots, parenting dots, etc. I continually aim to make sense of situations and circumstances and long for a simple numbered life sheet to give me guidance and direction.<br /><br />Do you ever feel that way? Do you ever wonder how to connect daily choices and behaviors to solutions? Do you struggle to understand how to connect the dots between your actions and the desired result? Between the decisions you need to make and the impacts it will have? Most of the time we are so focused on the end result and do not realize that it is the process that determines our course. Just like connecting the dots, life’s events do not just happen randomly. It is numbered just like our days are numbered. In the last blog, we were applauding Matt Sileno, the President of The Intuitive Group, Inc., for his commitment to recognition and living in the moment. It’s absolutely easy to get wrapped up in the hustle of building and managing a business, yet nonetheless Matt continuously adds value to the company culture by taking out his team for recreational activities to bond and recharge after a week of hard work. <br /><br />Other times, when it’s difficult to discern what to do, sometimes you need to just sit back and have faith that things will work out in the end. Trusting your own decisions is often one of the most difficult but necessary and rewarding experiences. When we connect the dots, we are demonstrating what it takes to get to the next level, or make the next decision, or choose the next response. You have to trust that the dots will somehow connect in your future.<br /><br />Imagine what our lives, families, and communities would look like if we disciplined ourselves to purposefully connect our life dots each day. The world would see a beautiful picture!<br /><br />The Intuitive Group, Inc.<br />8233 Old Courthouse Rd Ste 330<br />Vienna, VA 22182<br /><br />Tel (703) 388-2863<br />Fax (703) 388-2894<br /><br />www.theintuitivegroup-dc.com<div class="blogger-post-footer">About Matt Sileno: Matt Sileno, the President/Founder of TheIntuitive Group, Inc. is no stranger to hard work and overcoming adversity. He has taken his small Sales and Marketing Firm to new heights working directly with Fortune 100 and Fortune 500 companies across the U.S.</div>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2887543291146806523.post-7511243668752529812010-07-01T15:03:00.000-07:002010-07-01T15:15:15.531-07:00THE ROAD TO HAPPINESS<a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_SfSOKz4FR0o/TC0R6_6rs0I/AAAAAAAAADc/kruaaQ5-uoQ/s1600/Charity.jpg"><img style="float:left; margin:0 10px 10px 0;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 248px; height: 320px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_SfSOKz4FR0o/TC0R6_6rs0I/AAAAAAAAADc/kruaaQ5-uoQ/s320/Charity.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5489063226122154818" /></a><br /><strong>“The road to happiness lies in two simple principles,” said Rockefeller. “Find what interests you and that you can do well, and put your whole soul into it – every bit of energy and ambition and natural ability you have.”</strong><br /><br />So you're on your way to college. Courses, textbooks, roommates, sports, clubs, parties -- and, oh yeah, your major. Somewhere along the line, you've got to pick one. The thing is, at most colleges and universities these days, you've got so many choices. <br /><br /><em><strong>Are you the right you? </strong></em><br /><br />Rockefeller gives us two basic principles to follow. <br /><br /><strong>1. Do what interests you. </strong><br /><br />Don’t forget the most important resource of all: you. Think about what you're good at, what you enjoy, and what fascinates you.<br /><br />You can look for a career path that seems interesting, secure, and well-paid. You can decide to go to grad school and delay having to answer the question for a few more years. Or you can rephrase the question into one that we think is more important: “What am I interested in?” No, not every interest can be turned into a job that pays the bills. But if you ask people out there in the real world whether the tougher thing is to find your passion or a job, we bet that nine out of ten will pick passion. The problem is most people don’t want to change careers or start a new business. They don’t necessarily want more money. What they want is freedom, and the things money can buy. <br /><br /><strong>2. Put your whole soul into it. </strong><br /><br />In other words, as Ralph Waldo Emerson, the American philosopher clearly stated, "Put your whole soul into it. Stamp it with your own personality." <br /><br />Doing something for money will lead you to a life you have no passion for. Doing something because someone else told you to will lead to the same. Most people dream of finding a way to build a better quality of life and to control their destiny. Yet, this never happens for most people. Success in anything seems to be largely a matter of hanging on after others have let go. It might take a little longer, but ultimately you'll be doing something you love, and that's what matters. <br /><br /><br />Recently, a friend shared a really interesting article with me, titled, <a href="http://news.yahoo.com/s/livescience/20100701/sc_livescience/usisrichestnationbutnothappiest">“U.S. Is Richest Nation, But Not Happiest</a>”.<br /><br /><strong>It said that there are two major categories of happiness: overall life satisfaction; and more moment-to-moment enjoyment of life. </strong><br /><br />While overall satisfaction of life is strongly tied to income, meaning richer nations and individuals have more of this overall bliss, how much one enjoys life (by measures such as laughing and smiling) depends more on social and psychological needs being met. These include having social support and using one's abilities, as opposed to sitting at a mind-numbing job. <br /><br />The United States, which had the highest gross domestic product per capita, came in at No. 16 for overall well-being and No. 26 for enjoyment, referred to as positive feelings. The No. 1 spot for overall well-being went to Denmark, and New Zealand landed the No. 1 slot for positive feelings. <br /><br />"Everybody has been looking at just life satisfaction and income," said study researcher Ed Diener of the University of Illinois and the Gallup Organization. "And while it is true that getting richer will make you more satisfied with your life, it may not have the big impact we thought on enjoying life." <br /><br />The positive feelings aspect of happiness could have evolutionary roots. "Whereas life satisfaction reflects whether people are obtaining their values and goals in a long-term and big picture sense, positive feelings seem to arise from momentary things that are prewired, since feeling good about the support of others and about using skills are both necessary for humans to thrive and survive," Diener told LiveScience. <br /><br />Overall, as a result of following these two simple principles, it was estimated after Mr. Rockefeller retired from business that he had accumulated close to $1,500,000,000 out of the earnings of the Standard Oil trust and out of his other investments. This was probably the greatest amount of wealth that any private citizen had ever been able to accumulate by his own efforts. <br /><br /><strong>The lesson?</strong> The road to happiness is doing something you are passionate about. The money will follow!<br /><br /><em><strong>Are you ready to strike out on new paths, rather than travel the worn paths of accepted success?</strong></em><div class="blogger-post-footer">About Matt Sileno: Matt Sileno, the President/Founder of TheIntuitive Group, Inc. is no stranger to hard work and overcoming adversity. He has taken his small Sales and Marketing Firm to new heights working directly with Fortune 100 and Fortune 500 companies across the U.S.</div>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2887543291146806523.post-27912632080425767352010-06-24T10:46:00.000-07:002010-06-24T12:33:27.145-07:00The Generous Leader<a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_SfSOKz4FR0o/TCOZ-qkUSzI/AAAAAAAAADU/wZ7rFMrqwOw/s1600/30483_1462806723510_1033731136_1373218_7112775_n.jpg"><img style="float:left; margin:0 10px 10px 0;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 214px; height: 320px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_SfSOKz4FR0o/TCOZ-qkUSzI/AAAAAAAAADU/wZ7rFMrqwOw/s320/30483_1462806723510_1033731136_1373218_7112775_n.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5486398072924949298" /></a><br /><strong>Yesterday our Founder and CEO Matt Sileno took a couple of the people from the office to watch Strasburg pitch at the Nationals Stadium. We just want to shout out and say Thank you Matt for your leadership and giving back!!!</strong><br /><br />When expanding a company/organization there are many tasks that are going on all at once. A lot of time, dedication, and commitment is required to ensure that things go smoothly. With all of this going on, our company President Matt Sileno still finds the time to exemplify what a great leader is all about. Matt always takes the right actions to make people feel that the work they do is important, and that they themselves, as people, are important to the team.<br /><br />In return, the morale of the team at <a href="http://www.theintuitivegroup-dc.com/">The Intuitive Group, Inc.</a> is always strong! <br /><br />Often, leaders are so focused on future achievements, on realizing the vision of the organization, that in the process, they neglect the people who are there. On the other hand, Matt Sileno, is very much involved. Freely and generously sharing know-how, expertise, and ideas is not only beneficial for employees - it's a smart way of doing business. <br /><br />Connect with Matt Sileno on <a href="http://www.linkedin.com/pub/matt-sileno/15/56/b47">LinkedIn</a><br /><br /><br /><a href="http://dc-easternpa.bbb.org/codbrep.html?wlcl=y&id=152941138">A Better Business Bureau Accredited Business with A Rating!</a><br /><br />Follow us on <a href="http://twitter.com/intuitivegroup">Twitter</a> for more blog updates<div class="blogger-post-footer">About Matt Sileno: Matt Sileno, the President/Founder of TheIntuitive Group, Inc. is no stranger to hard work and overcoming adversity. He has taken his small Sales and Marketing Firm to new heights working directly with Fortune 100 and Fortune 500 companies across the U.S.</div>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2887543291146806523.post-53519451938315345202010-06-22T22:25:00.000-07:002010-06-23T08:19:40.168-07:00Attitude Is Everything<a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_SfSOKz4FR0o/TCIl_9NZzWI/AAAAAAAAADM/mZtouja3lEE/s1600/THEME_AIE.jpg"><img style="float:right; margin:0 0 10px 10px;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 225px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_SfSOKz4FR0o/TCIl_9NZzWI/AAAAAAAAADM/mZtouja3lEE/s320/THEME_AIE.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5485989076783451490" /></a><br /><br /><span style="font-weight:bold;">No pessimist ever discovered the secret of the stars, or sailed to an uncharted land, or opened a new doorway for the human spirit.<br /><span style="font-style:italic;">Helen Keller</span></span> <br /><br />According to Helen Keller’s biography, she was actually the first deaf blind individual to obtain a Bachelor of Arts degree! Of course from there she went on to achieve <span style="font-weight:bold;">extraordinary</span> things in her lifetime. The thing I want to point out is if Helen Keller, who was deaf and blind, did not let that stop her from building a life of significance, what are we missing? <span style="font-style:italic;">Shame on us! </span> <br /><br />People don’t really value or reflect on their purpose in life until something really bad occurs. Getting diagnosed with cancer, having a heart attack, a bad car accident. In essence the problem is really us, not the economy, not the government, not our children or our parents. Often we identify these as the problems which hinder our success. We allow them to loom large in front of us. We delay taking action because we want to be sure we understand the problem thoroughly and that we have analyzed every possible solution. Unfortunately by the time we think of something that certain problem has totally engulfed us! Envision that there is a house on fire and a person driving by just stopped and jumps out of the car and runs into the house. The person saves two small children inside. If that person had instead stopped to ponder about what to do rather than just doing it, and then guess what, two children might have lost their lives. <br /><br />We are stopped by the words and thoughts of others as well. “You can’t do that.” “No one has ever done that before.” We’re stopped by these barriers that have no walls, no perimeters, and no blockades! In fact, the only true barrier is our perception. The only way to discover this truth is to make the journey yourself. <br /><br />Urban legend has that the 409 spray cleaning formula product is named for the birthday of the inventor's wife or daughter. Some have thought that they named the formula after a large, powerful engine found in Chevrolet cars at the time. However, the product was actually named 409 because it took the inventors 409 tries to get the formula right! Most of us would have quit after failing maybe two or three times. <br /><br /><br /><span style="font-weight:bold;">Want to know the secret to this piece of success? </span><br /><br /><span style="font-style:italic;">Effective action is 30% what you know, and 70% how you feel about what you know.<br /></span><br /> This means that your accomplishments multiply a thousandfold when you infuse them with energy, excitement, and passion! The other day someone told me about a woman I would be working with. He said, “Oh, you’ll love her. She is so dynamic and enthusiastic.” People never say, “You will love her. She is so intelligent, and has a PhD.” As a matter of fact, it’s not what the woman knows that really impresses people, but how she gets that knowledge across. She is actually excited about what she knows, about what she is doing and how she can help. Excitement is absolutely contagious. Everyone she works with is more productive when she is around. For example, if you had the choice of hiring two people with the same background, the same skills, and the same academic degrees, you will always choose the one with the highest degree- OF excitement and enthusiasm. <span style="font-weight:bold;">Trust me, hands down it is attitude that makes the difference!</span><div class="blogger-post-footer">About Matt Sileno: Matt Sileno, the President/Founder of TheIntuitive Group, Inc. is no stranger to hard work and overcoming adversity. He has taken his small Sales and Marketing Firm to new heights working directly with Fortune 100 and Fortune 500 companies across the U.S.</div>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2887543291146806523.post-46482058106144365972010-06-16T11:07:00.000-07:002010-06-16T11:28:56.568-07:00CHARACTER<a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_SfSOKz4FR0o/TBkXUjpKDII/AAAAAAAAAC8/mi_3G-seRB4/s1600/endurance.jpg"><img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5483439663232978050" style="FLOAT: left; MARGIN: 0px 10px 10px 0px; WIDTH: 320px; CURSOR: hand; HEIGHT: 251px" alt="" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_SfSOKz4FR0o/TBkXUjpKDII/AAAAAAAAAC8/mi_3G-seRB4/s320/endurance.jpg" border="0" /></a><br />Despite what the economy is like, despite the circumstances around us, we have to be inspired and encouraged about our future. It’s not enough to get a good start; we need to finish well too.<br /><br />The words endurance doesn’t elicit positive feelings. However endurance has wonderful benefits.<br /><br />One of the greatest benefits of endurance is that it enables us to build character. <em>There is a clear connection with endurance and character. You cannot have one without the other.</em> They go hand in hand.<br /><br />The problem is I believe that our world is endurance challenged. Everyone wants a quick fix! We want things simple and we it want it fast! McDonalds has certainly gotten this formula perfected and as a result dominated the fast food industry. McDonalds makes it really convenient and there seems to be a location at every other block. Essentially, very few people understand the value of patience. Most people want instant gratification and to be successful overnight. How many get quick rich schemes have taken advantage of innocent people? You have probably heard this many times but it’s worth emphasizing that life is a marathon not a sprint! Overall it’s important to engage in strengthening of character by developing endurance. There are many things we will miss in life if we don’t endure.<br /><br /><strong>What is endurance?</strong> Endurance is the ability to stand wear and tear, or the willingness to stay put and press through. The opposite is hopelessness which is to expect that nothing good will come. It’s kind of like being dropped in the middle of the Atlantic Ocean and the boat leaves you to tread water and find your way back alone. These bad times will test your endurance and strengthen your character. The key to developing endurance is to stick to commitments and not live by your feelings.<br /><br /><em><strong>Understand character:</strong></em><br /><br /><em>Character is all about quality.</em> A person or object of quality has weight and substance. Most of us appreciate great character when we see it. Something that is handmade has better quality. For example, I love coffee. I can taste the difference between caffeinated and decaf, just as recognizing the difference between regular coke and diet coke. Real sugar versus splenda. People appreciate quality because there is authenticity and integrity, which can be demonstrated in a person’s commitments and relationships. A person of integrity is not all about image, it’s what you do when no one is looking.<br /><em><br />Character is a combination of spiritual, mental, emotional, and relational.</em> I’ve had roommates in college that were very intelligent and had mental character, but were emotional basket cases!<br /><br />Overall, <strong>character is a make or break issue. </strong>It is going to determine the success level of our lives. Weakness of character will always catch up with you at some time in your life; we will only be successful as the quality of our character.<br /><br />In the following is a story about the creators of YouTube which taught me why character is a make or break issue. People who may not have the right character yet, won’t respond appropriately to the opportunities given to them.<br /><br />It was while working at PayPal that Hurley and Chen became fast friends. They began to spend their free time discussing several different business ideas. When eBay purchased PayPal for $1.54 billion, the two received large bonuses for their role in growing the small startup. They decided to use their money to create their own venture. With Chen’s engineering skills and Hurley’s creativity, they thought forming a company together was a plausible idea.<br /><br />In January 2005, Hurley and Chen attended a friend’s dinner party in San Francisco. They had taken a few digital videos of the event and wanted to share them with each other the next day, but could not find a good means to do so. The files were too big to email, while posting them online would take hours. With that, Hurley and Chen had their first idea for a sustainable business. Using the money they had received from the PayPal buyout, Chen and Hurley decided to create YouTube, to make uploading and sharing videos online as easy as anyone could want.<br /><br /><em>It was the birth of a revolution.</em><br /><strong><br />There are three kinds of people in the world: People who make things happen, people who watch things happen, people who wonder what happened.</strong><br /><br /><strong>Rest assured and prepare yourself, there’s another opportunity around the corner from you! Which one are you going to be?</strong><br /><br />Follow <a href="http://www.theintuitivegroup-dc.com/">The Intuitive Group, Inc.</a> on <a href="http://twitter.com/intuitivegroup">Twitter</a>!<div class="blogger-post-footer">About Matt Sileno: Matt Sileno, the President/Founder of TheIntuitive Group, Inc. is no stranger to hard work and overcoming adversity. He has taken his small Sales and Marketing Firm to new heights working directly with Fortune 100 and Fortune 500 companies across the U.S.</div>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0